This was a few years ago, but after I shared about some medical issues I had been having, 2 friends brought me hydrangeas. They both knew they are my favorite, and it made me feel so loved! It is so hard to open up about how we are doing, but when we allow people to help us and see our troubles, it really eases our burdens. It is OK to not be OK right now. It is even more OK to tell people how you are doing. You will be glad you let them in!